November 20, 2017

SR. HELENA'S TOP THEOLOGY OF THE BODY BOOK PICKS

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THE BASICS:

















WOMENSTUFF:


















MENSTUFF: 



 

(Also a book.)






PARENTING:
You need physician & psychologist Dr. Leonard Sax's books. LeonardSax.com He also gives workshops directly to youth. --"Why Gender Matters" --"Girls on the Edge" --"Boys Adrift" --"The Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Adults"






PORNOGRAPHY:



 




CHASTITY:




DATING:
www.thedatingprojectmovie.com

MARRIAGE:

















            GENDER:

An absolute must-have for everyone. Originally for parents & educators, this needs to be
in the hands of all youth so they can help themselves & their peers. Full-color infographics, all the stats, studies & science. FREE DOWNLOAD (or buy spiral-bound) GenderResourceGuide.com



Super practical!

(Canadian Hudson Byblow gives his testimony on CD or mp3: lighthousecatholicmedia.org)





Watch the movie here: dysconnectedmovie.com



Detransitioners tell their stories / 2 registered pediatric nurses do a deep dive
into the medical malpractice horror that is "gender-affirming care"...and what can be done




Dr. Seiler has an incredible testimony, is a powerful speaker and is now a Christian.



JBP on fire here. 🔥 WPATH is the little-known, top-down organization that determines "gender-affirming care" policy (i.e., "transitioning" children) everywhere. God. Help. Us.


80% of youth going to "gender clinics" are young women.
The phenomenon is called ROGD (Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria). This book is the answer.


Coming soon! From brave British teachers!
 
https://hellburns.blogspot.com/2019/03/whats-at-stake-when-child-self.html#.XYUjUkZKiM8








"SEX ED" IN SCHOOLS:


Watch free on YouTube!


SEX ED IN THE HOME:


This is the BEST TOB book for ages 6-11. Lots of substance.
The illustrations make it look like it's for small children, but it's good for all ages.
Really connects sex with God and will give your 8-year-old-going-on-18 something to chew on!
 

See also: www.tinyurl.com/TOBsexED

CONTRACEPTION:




(formerly "Sex Au Naturel")


This is Dr. Smith's latest book on HV. Check out also her: "Why Humanae Vitae Was Right,"
"Humanae Vitae: A Generation Later," and "Why Humanae Vitae Is Still Right"

(Struggling with NFP? This is hilarious. And profound.)



JOHN PAUL II:

CHRISTOPHER WEST:



Christopher West's 2020 book is an easy read--his most readable book ever!
Aimed at ALL Christians, this volume primarily expounds Scripture.
HOW do our bodies tell God's story?
Why is there no sex in heaven? Why do we need to keep God in the bedroom?



ABUSE:

This phenomenal book is one-of-a-kind for the abused Christian woman and her friends and family.
If a woman is religious, it can add layers of difficulty to her getting help and helping herself.
Author Rose Saad, RN, suffered abuse, sought safety and healing, and now seeks to help others in the same situation. Rose goes meticulously through the steps that must be taken,
both spiritually and physically. Illustrated by true stories.


KIDS:


TEENS: 

2 books in one!


Straightforward textbook for teens who already have some degree of faith.
JP2's actual teaching/words put forth in a serious, in-depth manner for mature teens.





INTRODUCTORY:
(see also "Christopher West" above)





BIO-ETHICS:


ALL the body issues.




Includes "surrogacy." Canadian Stephanie Gray is a international pro-life presenter and debater. 



OTHER:




For more resources, see: www.tinyurl.com/bestTOBresources




November 18, 2017

WHY YOUNG PEOPLE NO LONGER BELIEVE IN GOD, RELIGION or SPIRITUALITY




This is one of the most important vids you may ever watch.

IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT

Young people aren't just rejecting belief in God, they aren't religious OR spiritual.
NOT THEIR FAULT. It's the culture they've grown up in that they did not create. 

Even if we say: "I'm spiritual, not religious," that's simply not true.
"spiritual"=of the soul
"religious"=of the body
Human beings=soul and body. We CAN'T just be "spiritual."

If we believe something ("spiritual"), we act accordingly ("religious").
We can always tell what someone believes or doesn't believe by what they do or don't do.

David Foster Wallace said: "We all worship. We worship whatever we love the most, value the most, think about the most, give the most time to."

In a nutshell, the media devices young people have had in their hands since the crib are not just an ever-present appendage. The device is a person. The device IS God. It is a world of seemingly unlimited personal choices and wish fulfillment. What more could anyone want?

The media device is a PERSON. A trusted FRIEND/BUDDY who serves me night and day and is always there for me, doing so many good things for me, never failing me--unlike the adults (and even my peers) in my life. It's the last person I see before going to bed, the first person I see in the morning. Parents should not allow this to be the case. All family members' media devices should be charging in parents' bedrooms at night.

One of our Brazilian Sisters said this: "If our young people had faith in God--they would know that there is Someone bigger than they are who created them for heaven and loves them unconditionally. They would know their own value. But if they don't know God, they must look to something bigger than themselves for validation such as 'likes' on social media ('anonymous crowd validation') OR 'validation by association' by imitating/stalking YouTube or Instagram stars as in the film 'Ingrid Goes West.'"

3 REASONS YOUNG PEOPLE ARE TURNING FROM GOD

The book Bishop Barron is quoting names 3 reasons why young people are turning from God, religion and spirituality:

1. The seemingly unlimited world of subjective personal choices media devices offer. (In a postmodern/relativistic/deconstructionist/nihilist world there is no objective truth to guide us as to what might be "good" to choose.)
2. The absolute belief that science and God are incompatible.
3. Judaeo-Christian teaching on the human person/identity/sexuality.

"Professor Jean Twenge’s book iGen about the generation born between 1995 and 2012 is one of the most fascinating—and depressing—texts I’ve read in the past decade. Her chapter on religious attitudes and behaviors among iGen’ers unambiguously indicates what is leading this most unreligious generation in our history away from the churches." --Bishop Barron

(When consecrated bishop, Bishop Barron very honestly and aptly answered the question: "What's the greatest problem facing the Church right now?" with: "The attrition of her members.")

Sr. Helena also highly recommends sociologist Christian Smith's culminating book (after decades of studying young people and religion in the USA): Young Catholic America: In, Out and Gone from the Church.

And, although what young people need today is more complex than this, AS LONG AS THE CHURCH REFUSES TO TEACH THEOLOGY OF THE BODY SYSTEMATICALLY AT ALL LEVELS TO HER OWN CHILDREN/TEENS/ADULTS, the Grand Exodus will continue unmitigated. Why do I say "refuse"? Because Catholic officialdom is doing just that. (Not every diocese/parish/school, but most.) Just try suggesting introducing TOB training in your corner of the vineyard and see what happens. 

During the meetings preparing for the upcoming Youth Synod, young people report: that young people within and without the Church want the Church to change her teachings on:
--contraception

--same-sex marriage
--co-habiting
--male-only priesthood
Hmmmm. What do all these things have in common? They are issues of gender/sexuality. But, God bless, these young people. They added immediately after stating these facts: BUT WE DON'T UNDERSTAND THESE TEACHINGS BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T BEEN TAUGHT THE REASONS BEHIND THEM. And, sadly, as you know, this young person might have done 12+ years of Catholic school/education. #AstronomicalFail

TODAY, WITHOUT THEOLOGY OF THE BODY, WE DON'T KNOW WHO WE ARE. WE REALLY DON'T. BECAUSE THE CULTURE IS SUPPLYING AN ANTI-THEOLOGY OF THE BODY ANTHROPOLOGY, EVANGELIZATION AND CATECHESIS AS TO WHO WE ARE. IT IS A HIGHLY-ORGANIZED, WELL-HEELED, MONOLITHIC, GLOBAL CULTURE/MOVEMENT ENTERING SCHOOLS, MEDIA, NEWS, EDUCATION, INFORMATION, DICTIONARIES, ENCYCLOPEDIAS, ENTERTAINMENT, LAWS, SCIENTIFIC FIELDS, COURTS, ETC.

One striking case in point: Judith Butler, the premier gender ideologist, is now VP of the MLA (Modern Language Association). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judith_Butler

And just in case you think things are just like the 60's, 70's or 80's where "Oh, they come back once they get married and have kids": Millennials aren't coming back (and why should we think iGen/Gen Z will either?) It's a completely different philosophical world they're living in. They're breathing different air than we are. They're in a completely different head space. They are NOT younger versions of ourselves. There is no place for irresponsible, falsely optimistic happy-talk in this regard. Once again: NOT THEIR FAULT. Yes, I know pockets of lovely, orthodox, faithful young Catholic people everywhere. I hang out with them all the time. They are the vast minority today.

Our young people are not consciously, intentionally searching for God (NOT THEIR FAULT, see below) when they "leave the Church." They may put together a few facets from different religions they admire (syncretism) or do some spiritual/religious practices to "cover all the bases" (superstition), but they are postmoderns. They are offended by "exclusive" truth claims. In fact, two new chains of hotels catering to Millennials will not allow The Gideons to place Bibles in them because it doesn't "fit the brand." http://www.latimes.com/business/la-fi-hotel-bibles-20161204-story.html

For the most part, our younger generations have not had "bad experiences" with the Church as past generations may have. They've had little or no experiences with the Church, and were often presented a Faith so watered down (an even weaker version of secular "niceness") that there wasn't even much to leave.

Western Civilization (through self-sabotage) ran out of gas some time ago--we've been living on fumes and we just ran out of fumes.

WE CAN'T GO ON LIKE THIS.

Sr. Helena's answer (in this order): PHILOSOPHY, THEOLOGY OF THE BODY, MEDIA LITERACY and DIRECT EXPERIENCES OF GOD (just shove them in front of Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament, Bible study, youth events, etc.). The direct experiences of God can certainly come first and maybe should come first, then they'll be ready for more, for knowledge. "Taste and see that the Lord is good." --Psalm 34:8. "It's not that we're lacking knowledge today, we're lacking love." --Thomas Merton. GIVE THEM THE GOOD EXAMPLE OF YOUR DEDICATED CHRISTIAN WITNESS. I heard a veteran youth minister say recently: "Don't just keep saying 'God loves you' to young people. They don't know what that means. They don't believe in God and talk is cheap. Adults have been telling them all their lives: 'I love you!' and then they betrayed them or left them. SHOW them true SACRIFICIAL LOVE. Young people are also looking for MEANING in an age that says there is no meaning. Especially, they want to know that their own lives have meaning, that they matter."

Finally: strengthen MARRIAGES and FAMILIES.

born 1945-1963 = Baby Boomers
born 1964-1981 = Gen X
born 1982-2000 = Millennials/Gen Y
born 2001-2015 = iGen/GenZ

born 2016-____ = __________ (GenREBOOT?)


OUR TOXIC CULTURE ROBS YOUTH OF JOY

Our toxic culture is robbing our young people of their joy. Youth is a time of angst, but it is also a time of hope and buoyancy--looking expectantly toward the future with a sense of immortality, possibility and joy. But our young people are depressed, medicated and suicidal in frighteningly large numbers. WE NEED GOD.

The ever-morphing failed Sexual Revolution is causing more and more individual pain and grief as it further breaks down the family and society. The Sexual Revolution is unscientific. God, Creation, the Bible, the Church and Science are all saying the same thing. But the SexRev is out in left field all by itself, still making the same empty promises. We now have all the data and statistics we need to prove that the SexRev is harmful to our physical and spiritual health, our body, our soul, our relationships and the flourishing of society. But our young people keep succumbing to its Pied Piper's tune.

And, of course, it makes sense that God, Creation, the Bible, the Church and Science are all saying the same thing: God created Creation, God gave us the Bible and the Church, and Science is simply telling us just how awesome God made everything and how everything can work either for us or against us. If they WEREN'T all saying the same thing, we'd be in big trouble. Somebody's lying. :)



HOW DID WE GET HERE?


How did we get to the point where Canadian Catholic parents are flying their teens all over the world to get gender reassignment surgeries (it's illegal before 18 years old in Canada)? How did we get to the point where young people "reason" like the young people in the tweet below? Hint: it didn't happen overnight.




LET'S BACK IT UP AND DO SOME PHILOSOPHY

There have been 3 major philosophical eras in history so far. All 3 types of philosophies (and their adherents) are still around, but there will always be an overarching philosophy/narrative that everyone will live under, depending on what times they are born into. We are presently living in a postmodern world (some even say a post-postmodern world; I definitely think we're on the brink of a fourth philosophical era). If we don't understand these eras and which one our hearers subscribe to, we will be addressing them unintelligibly. 

In a incredibly small nutshell, here it is:

PRE-MODERN WORLD       /        MODERN WORLD        /        POSTMODERN WORLD        /        POST-POSTMODERN WORLD
pre-history to 1500's                        1500's to World War II               World War II to present                      Present to.......

There is a God.                                      There is no God.                      There is no God.                      There is no God.
We can't save ourselves.                   We can save ourselves.            We can't save ourselves.          We don't need salvation.


What are some hallmarks of a POSTMODERN WORLD? (POST-POSTMODERN in red.)
(Know your -isms so we don't get fooled again.)

--There is no God (atheism) OR we can't know if there's a God (agnosticism) OR we don't care if there's a God (apatheism)
--We can't know the why behind truths/facts. Truth is arbitrary. Nothing connects anything together. (nominalism)
--There is no objective truth. (relativism)
--If there's no truth, than raw power rules, violence/might makes right. (neo-Marxism)
--If there's no truth, than there's no meaning. Life is absurd. Anything goes. Suicide is preferable. (nihilism). 
--Nothing is what it claims to be, it's always worse. And absurd. See? This watch doesn't tell time (after taking it out of its context and pulling it apart and just leaving it there). (deconstructionism)
--There is no such thing as a "person." We are all just objects, things, consumer products. Everything has the same value as everything else. (reification, radical egalitarianism)
--In the early stages of postmodernism (mid-20th century), there was a willingness to re-examine everything, even God, truth, traditions, older ways of thinking, ancient ways of doing things, perhaps EVEN Christianity. (Christianity is treated as a separate case in postmodernism. Why? Because if you were formed by Western Civilization, IT was formed by Christianity, and the adolescent personality always want to rebel against Mom and Dad. They will accept anything from anyone else and even hurt themselves in order to go against Mom and Dad.) However, this window of opportunity in postmodernism, that is, to re-examine the past, perhaps adapt it and purify it, is quickly closing, and we have arrived at "the buffered self" (see below).

(NEO-)MARXISM

Marxism is huge in postmodernism and post-postmodernism. The Italian philosopher, Augusto Del Noce maintains that since Marxism has uncoupled itself from an actual lived political system for all practical purposes and has become a free-floating ideology, it is 10 times more dangerous and is infecting everything. Our young people don't even know its murderous history (since only the present moment counts and/or they've been told by their brilliant university professors that the slaughter of millions were just anomalies and not true Marxism) and think they're badass to have the hammer and sickle hanging in their bedrooms. (They're also taught that capitalism is the enemy, and Marxism will create equality, economic justice and a decent standard of living for all. History, of course, says otherwise.)

However, it is important to note that while capitalism is not an intrinsically evil and inhumane system (as is Marxism), unbridled capitalism is similar to Marxism (extremes meet) in that it can become an ideology of pure materialism. 

When Our Lady said at Fatima: "Russia will spread her ERRORS," she wasn't kidding. Notice she didn't say: "Russia will oppress and kill people, conduct wars, etc., she said "errors."

FEELINGS, NOTHING MORE THAN FEELINGS

So, if our young people have been signaled/messaged all their lives in a postmodern culture that there is no "truth out there" to be found, why should they look for what doesn't exist? Taking thinking/reasoning seriously is also kind of futile as well because whatever kind of truth I'm pondering can never be grasped with certainty. (Thank you, Rene Descartes! Descartes is the philosopher who gave us profound doubt about the nature of all reality. All he thought he could know for certain was the fact that he was doubting the nature reality. His radical skepticism about everything has seeped into the very marrow of our culture.)

So, if I can't even trust my own thoughts and ability to know and grasp truth? What CAN I know with certainty? FEELINGS. Fluctuating, ephemeral feelings have become absolute. We are now legislating on how people "feel." We don't even use words when we text any more, we use emojis. And the most used emoji is the little yellow smiley face that is laughing and crying at the same time because we're so confused. (If you can't think straight, use logic, and you don't trust your own ability to employ critical thinking skills, you will be confused.)


Don't get me wrong, feelings are important, but they are often simply indicators, and they are beyond our control. Who can get up in the morning and say determinedly: "I'm going to FEEL happy all day today!"? No one. Feelings are mysterious. They come and go. How can we base important decision in life on feelings alone? For example: going to school, going to work, taking care of a sick child? Feelings are only one-third of what makes us human. We have to employ our mind, will and heart (feelings) in unison. Our three human faculties are the ability to reason, choose and love. Love is ultimately a choice of the will, an act of the will. Love is willing and doing the good of the other no matter what it costs me (Aquinas). I choose to love no matter how I feel at any given moment.




IDENTITY 

So many issues today might seem to be about "gender," but are really about a deeper issue of identity. If there's no God, then what, really, are human beings? We can only understand ourselves in relation to God, and in particular, God-made-man in Jesus Christ.



Our true identity is beloved children of God, beloved men and women of God. Anything else is a false identity. (Even is someone is experiencing gender dysphoria, body dysmorphia, same-sex attraction or was born intersex, it's still a variation on a theme of  "in the image of God...male and female.") If we don't know our true identity, we will be searching for another one or creating another one for ourselves.

THE BUFFERED SELF

So why wouldn't our young people disengage from what they've been told doesn't exist or can't be known or doesn't make sense? Put in the earbuds, fire up the media device, pull over the hoodie and create a cocoon. This is a physical expression of what Canadian philosopher, Charles Taylor, calls "the buffered self."


Nothing and no one can get into the buffered self. What is the opposite of the buffered self? The "porous self." The self that is open to the world, in dialogue with the world, learning, looking, listening, examining, questioning, engaging, discerning, synthesizing, accepting, rejecting, interrogating, deciding, acting, contributing, open to surprises and exposing myself to all kinds of thing beyond niches that I prefer and make me feel comfortable.

How can we enage our young people and make them trust in their own ability to find and know truth--beyond "I feel," "I like," "I want," as the measure of all things? ("I believe," would be too rational, involving thought on one hand, but incapable of providing evidence/proof on the other.) Their own incredible potential and worth--just from the face of being human? We must keep trying. We cannot leave them to their cocoons and "silos." It's going to take a lot because there's much to be done on many fronts in order to "reach" the buffered self. NOT THEIR FAULT.

Once again, Sr. Helena suggests: PHILOSOPHY (lead them through the history of philosophy, show them how philosophers/philosophies shaped them and their very assumptions), THEOLOGY OF THE BODY (What does it mean to be a human being? What is Love? What is my call to love and be loved? [vocation]), MEDIA LITERACY (Based on what it means to be human, how can I use media in a way that is humanizing and never de-humanizing--beginning with the amount of time I use media? Media Literacy also requires critical thinking skills), DIRECT EXPERIENCES OF GOD (Do they see God in US? In how we love them, others, the less fortunate? Have we exposed them to Mass, the Rosary, Eucharistic Adoration and other beautiful prayer forms, especially in youth gatherings/settings such as LifeTeen? Have we introduced them to the saints and the profound Catholic intellectual tradition where they can feast on lots of fascinating stories/examples and challenging food for their minds?)

"THEY'RE COMING FOR YOU NEXT, BIOLOGISTS."

Since science doesn't agree with the Sexual Revolution or many other "feelings"-based systems such as gender ideology (science only finds two human genders), Dr. Jordan B. Peterson said these chilling words: "They're coming for you next, biologists." Who are "they"? Postmodernists. Science must be silenced since it is giving the lie to all kinds of postmodern fallacies. So, the last bastion of accepted, acknowledged objective truth is under attack. As one of my other Sisters says: "Everyone likes Science till it tells us something we don't want to hear."

WILL SCIENCE CAVE TO THE CULTURE?

Gender ideologists are entering and subverting scientific fields. Some are making up their own "disciplines" such as "medical historian." One such gender ideologist-activist states this: "We've always known throughout history that there were many different genders. It's just that the cisgender, binary, hetero-normative people suppressed this knowledge." Bill Nye, the Science Guy is now teaching textbook gender ideology as hardcore science. What will happen when our young people, who have been indoctrinated in gender ideology since kindergarten, grow up and become scientists?

THE CATHOLIC CHURCH TAKES MATTER SERIOUSLY


Rather than being draconic, outdated and non-progressive, the Catholic Church may be one of the only entities left in the world today that takes matter, the physical world and the human body seriously. And if Science caves and stops being Science, we'll be the cheese standing alone.

Even more than that, Catholics believe the body is a Revelation of God. "The language of Christianity is the body."

And rather than just paying lip service to Creation as God's Revelation, Theology of the Body keeps all 3 Sources of Revelation together. "Creation calls for a grateful contemplation of God's world which allows us do discover in each thing a teaching which God wishes to hand on to us." --Pope Francis, September 1, 2016. "I want to help the world be always more in harmony with the will of the Creator." --Pope Francis, March 15, 2013.



WHAT TO READ/VIEW TO UNDERSTAND OUR CULTURE

--May I recommend you start by following Dr. Jordan B. Peterson (psychology professor at the University of Toronto) on Twitter @jordanbpeterson and YouTube and everywhere else? (It's best to just search for him on YouTube because many other people have created videos of him way beyond his own channel.) Also, read his book: "Maps of Meaning." He's a comprehensive voice of sanity and prophecy and reason and critical thinking and humanity and truth and kindness and an unlikely folk hero to the masses, especially young people. He's taking the time to form university students in foundational basics of life (making your bed is huge with him), as well as providing a true liberal arts education in person and online.







--"How The West Really Lost God" by Mary Eberstadt

--"Subverted: How I Helped the Sexual Revolution Hijack the Women's Movement" by Sue Ellen Browder

--"Adam and Eve After the Pill" by Mary Eberstadt

--"The Abolition of Man" by C.S. Lewis

--"The End of the Modern World" by Romano Guardini

--"Lord of the World" by Robert Hugh Benson

--"The Crisis of Modernity" by Augusto Del Noce (newly translated into English!)

--"Aborting America" and "The Hand of God" by Dr. Bernard Nathanson

--"Won By Love" by Norma McCorvey and "Unplanned" by Abby Johnson

--"Pillar of Fire" by Karl Stern

THE WAY FORWARD




November 17, 2017

HOW I REVIEW A FILM


THE FOLLOWING BLOG POST WAS ORIGINALLY POSTED IN 2012.

I’m often asked how I go about reviewing a film. It’s actually quite a complex, intangible, internal, interdisciplinary process--but there is a method to my madness.

Uber-movie-reviewer Pauline Kael (film critic for “The New Yorker,” 1968-1991) put it this way: “Film criticism is exciting just because there is no formula to apply, just because you must use everything you are and everything you know.” She believed that movies are “the most total and encompassing art form we have.”

The Founder of the Daughters of St. Paul, Blessed James Alberione, said: "The motion picture has a psychological, one could say, a suggestive, power over the human spirit, because it takes hold of the whole person and influences all his faculties, physical and spiritual.”

In an attempt to explain my process, I’m going to use a recent interview I did:

1. How did you get into film / movie reviewing / screenwriting / producing?

I was stationed in L.A. and my superiors asked me to study communications. They don't study communications out there, they make things! So screenwriting seemed like a good fit because I'm a writer (there’s also actors in my family). UCLA is known for screenwriting (and has a separate program for screenwriting), so I went there. It also taught me how a film is constructed and how the industry works from the inside out. It was actually a heartening experience. I also went to the Christian screenwriting bootcamp called "Act One, Hollywood" http://www.actoneprogram.com/--a month-long intensive program that also connects you to Hollywood mentors and insiders.

2. Has anything you've written been produced?

Not yet! The Father Alberione film will be coming out in early 2013, God willing, I’ve written a hockey screenplay, and a short or two. Lots of ideas in the works. The Daughters of St. Paul have also re-opened our temporarily shuttered video department in Boston.

3. How long have you been reviewing movies for the Catholic New World http://www.catholicnewworld.com/ Archdiocese of Chicago's Catholic newspaper?

About three years now. It's been a privilege, it keeps me up to date and dialoging with others about films....

4. How do you pick the films to review?

Between myself and the editor, Joyce Duriga, we try to choose something that's going to be very popular that a lot of people will see, try to highlight a great film, or give guidance on a film that is controversial or has serious negative overtones of whatever kind....

5. What is your criteria for reviewing films?

FIRST of all: excellence in filmmaking. [This would be a whole interview in itself!] Every media, every art form has its own "language," so I ask: Is this film following the rules of filmmaking and utilizing the language properly and well? What are the aesthetic values and ethics?

SECONDLY, the overall experience of the film. Is it coming from a good place? Is it telling the truth (even if illuminating the truth by contrast)? Is good presented as good and evil as evil? (Isaiah 5:20). And even if evil is presented as evil, is it GRATUITOUS with simply a nice little moral wrap-up at the end? Is the point rather that we experience and enjoy the "evil" in this film?

THIRDLY, how does it jive with a Judaeo-Christian, incarnational, sacramental worldview

I especially like to use JP2G's Theology of the Body as a lens because we're looking at bodies, at images of God on the screen, and very often there's a love story component. No matter what the subject matter, is human dignity upheld as THE value? I also use "God's Five F's of True Love": fundamental, free, full, faithful, fruitful.

I don't enjoy slamming films, but I will call a spade a spade. Oh, and I also sleep on it. Films can look very different the next day. AND they can EVAPORATE! If a film is still with me and haunting me a month later--in a good way--it often means it's good, rich film (or on the flipside a sick, disturbing or absurdist film that the poor little brain is trying to figure it out).

I don't try to "baptize" everything. If the film has an overall negative message or is objectionable in the main, I don't "bless" it because it had one good scene or one good point. As I review films, I try to use my review as a teachable moment, a catechetical moment. Whether or not people are actually going to see the film or not, they will learn something, receive some guidance/formation, be able to guide/form others who HAVE seen the film, etc.

What must always be kept in mind with ART is that much of the ETHICS are AESTHETICAL. It's not just that the film dealt with sex, for example, so it's automatically "bad" and no one should go see it.. HOW did they deal with it? WHAT did they show? HOW? HOW MUCH? WHAT did characters SAY? How did they ACT/REACT? What AGE might it be appropriate/inappropriate for? This makes all the difference. Especially in a hyper-sexualized culture, a film can come along that deals frankly with sex, but can straighten people's thinking out and help them have a MORE correct outlook on sex, for example. It may not be a perfect film, but it can be a bright spot amongst many, many depraved films. See these two reviews of mine:

http://hellburns.blogspot.com/2012/05/movies-what-to-expect-when-youre.html#.UCwL_allQWM

http://hellburns.blogspot.com/2012/08/movies-hope-springs.html#.UCwKlallQWM

I adhere 100% to ALL the teachings of the one, holy, Roman, Catholic, apostolic Church. I use my/the Catholic Faith to critique every film I see. I do not approve of what the Church does not approve of. Hollywood is not "Catholic," but I will cheer them on when they're on the right track AND boo them when they're not.

6. How should the average Catholic moviegoer approach a film?

Since the average moviegoer may not have had film studies, which certainly do help, and because we all have our own subjective opinions, likes and dislikes, sensibilities, etc., we should do a little homework first if possible: read some reviews, ask friends, kind of know what you're going to see ahead of time. Then take the film as a whole--don't just parse out a swear word here or there. (Was it the NYPD swearing? Well, that's realistic.) Is the whole thing coming from a good place? What's the takeaway?

Films aren't supposed to send you a "message," they're supposed to give you an experience of someone else's life. An experience of something you might not otherwise be able to access, and by going through that experience you should learn something about others, the world, yourself. You should be enriched on some level. I really think if people knew a few basics of filmmaking however, they wouldn't get so confused, not so much about bad movies but about good movies! For example, “Juno.” A lot of parents saw this movie and still couldn’t determine whether or not it was “good,” “OK” to let pre-teens/teens see. Another example: "Tree of Life." A lot of Catholics called this movie "New Age" and it's the furthest thing from New Age. Michael Phillips (the Chicago Tribune movie reviewer) called it "the most explicitly Christian film since 'The Passion of the Christ,'" and yet so many Catholics totally missed this. Why? Because they missed the opening scene (one of the most important scenes in any film. It tells you what the whole movie is about. It sums up the whole movie.). And what was it? A quote from Job, from the Bible. A very provocative quote where God is questioning all of us through Job: "Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth?" This means that the whole movie is going to be from a Judaeo-Christian perspective, and when you see nature scenes it's in the context of the God of the Bible's Creation. Period.

All the secular movie reviewers embraced this film. Ebert called it "a prayer." Why? They knew it was explicitly religious (religious, not “spiritual but not religious”), but it didn't offend them because it was a masterpiece of art and it didn't preach at them. It rang true. Just the way Michaelangelo and Raphael don't offend non-believers, and yet their art pulls no punches about the divinity of Christ or the truth about God's reality. And how many have been converted through great art? The director of “Tree of Life,” Terence Malick has done more for the New Evangelization with "Tree of Life" than any Church operative could dream of. It’s one of the Oscars’ mortal sins (that will go down in history) that it was nominated for several awards and didn’t win any.

7. Do you have any advice for parents regarding children and movies?

Again, do your homework as best as you can. Blessed James Alberione said about film and children that the work really is on the parents (and teachers) to: “1) choose which films 2) apportion, allot how much time the child will be allowed to spend with various media 3) accompany children to films 4) correct any false impressions they may have picked up.” This is actually good advice for any kind of media!

Parents know their own kids and what each one's sensibilities are. The most important thing is to talk about the film before (not during!) and after. "Control is for the moment, communication is for a lifetime." Two examples: "Harry Potter"--de-fang it by reading/watching with your kids and then teaching them: "Witchcraft is real, it's not make-believe. And we never use it, not even for ‘the good.’ You can't to evil that good may result." It's a teachable moment! "Super 8"--one of the kids takes the name of the Lord in vain ("God," "Jesus" and swears a lot). It's the only thing wrong with an otherwise great film. Watch with your kids and tell them: "Whenever you hear the name of God in vain, say: May He always be praised!"

We need to teach our kids media skills just like we teach them all other kinds of skills. Staying away from all films or only seeing the squeakiest-clean of films (depending on their age) doesn't teach them skills because when they eventually do happen to see these types of films they are not prepared, and teaching them these life-skills using "Harry Potter," and "Super 8" are things they will bring with them out of the theater and apply in real life. Hollywood gives us the opportunity to talk about things we need to talk about with kids! Don't make Hollywood spend their money (our yours) in vain!

We need to empower young people through Media Literacy Education combined with our Catholic Faith. We are the light of the world! We're not passive victims of the media! We are children of God and we're supposed to transform everything we come in contact with, not vice versa. St. Paul said: "You will be judging nations," and we're afraid of a movie? We don't know what to do with or say about a movie?

www.clearplay.com is an amazing, legal service that lets you watch mainstream films that have been purged of scenes of nudity, violence and language. Families with little ones (or a whole range of ages) swear by it!

8. What do you think of the MPAA rating system? (G, PG, PG-13, R, etc.)

I think it's somewhat helpful, especially now that they’re putting under the rating exactly why. However, some PG-13's these days really should be "R": "Date Night," "Dinner for Schmucks" (a truly insulting and degrading film which got a Razzie) "Easy A” (horrific and tragic), "Crazy, Stupid, Love," (incredibly tragic and irresponsible) "The Switch" and "Back-Up Plan" (Hello! Extremely mature themes throughout?) And unfortunately, movies like "Conviction" got an "R," simply because the "F" word (on the lips of prisoners) used 4 or 5 times is an automatic "R."

9. What are some of your top movies recently?

2011 was the Year of the "God" film: “Of Gods and Men,” "Soul Surfer," "Courageous," and "Tree of Life,” “The Way.”

10. What are your favorite movies of all times?

“Tree of Life,” “Man for All Seasons,” “The Mission,” “Blade Runner” (director's cut), “What About Bob”

11. How important is film and what should the Catholic Church be doing in the world of film?

About the general state of film, we might say that "the good is getting better and the bad is getting worse." Good: "Diary of a Wimpy Kid #1," "Despicable Me," "Gran Torino," "Surrogates," etc. I mentioned some of the sadder films above (also: “Back Up Plan,” “No Strings Attached,” “Friends with Benefits”). I get depressed for days after watching these films. Once you know Theology of the Body, you see the great human tragedy of what these films are portraying and how they are either calling evil good or making peace with evil (but these ways of life will never bring peace or true love.)

Film is more important than it has ever been because we are becoming a post-literate society. Everything is going visual, everything is a video, a YouTube now. People are too frazzled and have short-term attention spans to quietly read, and you can't multi-task when you read. The brain chooses what is more stimulating. So films--in their many new and easy ways of being distributed--are everywhere. We can watch them on our phones, stream them, watch on a computer, etc. Stories are now visual. Visual storytelling is where it's at. Films are the new books that unite us—the shared cultural experience carrier. Only a few films at a time are in the cinemas, and everyone eventually sees them. (Whereas other forms of media are so niche, they are no longer a shared cultural experience.) Films even unite age groups.

The Catholic Church needs to be highlighting and giving awards to good films (and it is—the Angelus Awards, Goodness Reigns, Humanitas Prize, Angel Awards, New Ethos, Dove), reviewing and discussing all films (from a cultural, artistic, informed POV, not just moralistic--there are many more levels to a film). And, most of all the Catholic Church should be supporting talented Catholic (and other) filmmakers. I personally think we should be especially supporting our young filmmakers who can reach their own generation (like Spirit Juice Studios—see: www.BestofSpiritJuiceStudios.blogspot.com  )

Filmmaking is very costly, and the Church needs to get very serious about being the patron of the arts again and giving commissions and supporting our young Leonardo da Vinci’s and Mary Cassatt’s of film. Our Founder--a media saint--was all about the best possible presentation. Creating media in a quality way that people are used to: media that are "worthy in form of the truths which they contain." Young people especially will not give you a look/listen unless the medium of your message is top quality.

(End of “interview.”)

People often ask me how they (or I, with my vow of chastity) can keep “pure” while watching romantic movies or steamy scenes in movies.

#1. “Know Thyself.” Know what is an occasion of sin for you in particular, and avoid those kind of movies or look away at the “steamy” parts or parts that are particularly troublesome for you. Everyone has different sensibilities and thresholds. But we have to have a well-informed, well-formed, delicate (not scrupulous or lax) conscience and be very, very honest with ourselves. If we are not honest with ourselves, we are going to have a very hard time doing the right thing in any area of our life and progressing on the way of holiness.

#2. Much of visual media is voyeuristic--it’s just the nature of the beast, and depending on the intentions of the filmmakers and the cinematography, we will be either MORE or LESS put in the position of the voyeur. Even if not sexual in nature, we may be pulled in close to a very realistic portrayal of something else generally personal or private (e.g., suffering, pain, embarrassment, relationships, conversations, failure, etc.)

Again, know yourself, but also watch the movements of your mind and heart. Am I gloating over something evil? Siding with the bad guy? Getting some kind of twisted pleasure from another’s misfortune? Enjoying something lewd and crude? Lowering my personal standards and morals with each crass movie I see? Always humanize the characters on the screen in your mind and feel toward them as you should feel toward real people. All media is virtual reality, and virtual reality is real: “real in its appearance and real in its effects.”

#3. Viewing a film is supposed to be an exercise where we put ourselves in the position of the characters (especially the main character) and vicariously go through an experience with them. However, if this experience is going to cause us to sin now or later, we need to shut down physically and emotionally for a time, look away, walk out of the theater, fast forward, shut off the device we’re watching the film on, etc. For example, as with “The Vow,” I don’t gaze into Channing Tatum’s eyes for long stints with Rachel McAdams, or ogle his ripped pecs every time he takes his shirt off (which is quite often). It kinda hasta do with human dignity, too. Tatum is getting paid to sell emotions, to tantalize, to provoke reactions, to be looked at. He is very willing to do this. But is it fully in keeping with his human dignity for millions of female strangers to stare at his body and perhaps even lust after him? Just because he’s willing and getting paid and I ostensibly paid to see him, does that mean I get to just glue my eyes to his body? No. Repecting human dignity means affording people their dignity even when they themselves don’t care about it. And this must also be a tough call for actors when it seems appropriate to the part, or just part of the job, or they feel very comfortable in their own skin, etc.

#4. Pray. Media is spiritual, powerful, influential, ubiquitous. Pray for enlightenment, strength, wisdom, discernment and for ill effects not to harm you as you use media. Ask God to let you see only things that will help you or help you help others (even if some might be somewhat unsavory), and to know how to turn them around for your good and the good of others. Ask to be the fragrance of Christ in a media world. Pray to engage the media and other media creators/users with the Gospel. Pray for the honesty to use media in the best way possible, to not waste time, to not sin in your use of media. Go to Confession when you use media improperly: specifically to sin, to waste time, to escape from real duties or people, (and some of the uses mentioned above), etc.

But, most of all, enjoy films, encourage today’s and future filmmakers, and praise God for this incredible form of story-telling!

“Everything is ours and we are Christ’s and Christ is God’s.” 1 Corinthians 3:22

The following prayer, in reparation for evil media and in petition for the increase of good media, was written by Blessed Father James Alberione, SSP, himself a filmmaker. (Prayercards available.)




                           

NETFLIX: "STRANGER THINGS" SEASONS 1 & 2




I JUST MOVED "STRANGER THINGS" OFF MY "HIDDEN NETFLIX GEMS" BLOG POST BECAUSE OF SEASON 2. PLEASE READ MY ENTIRE REVIEW HERE.

Season 1 -- Here's a series for (almost) the whole family. Pre-teens could definitely handle it. Old fashioned, skin-tingling, mysterious fun, reminiscent of 1980's filmmaking, it's also set in the 1980's. "Stranger Things" isn't perfect, but it's got a lot of good stuff. Four do-or-die friends (pre-teen boys) in the town of Hawkins, Indiana, play a game of Dungeons and Dragons (uh-oh, problematic in itself) that comes to life, or rather serendipitously coincides with a top-secret government experiment going on in their neighborhood. It's a bit of sci-fi meets supernatural thriller meets buddy movie meets John Hughes. "Eleven" is young girl who's been raised as an experiment in the government lab in the little town--an experiment that gives her superpowers.

The kids are the real stars of the show, of course. Solid child actors who must be having barrels of fun.

The series starts off with a lot of bad language, taking the name of the Lord in vain: "Jesus!"--especially awful when kids say it. (You can teach your kids to respond aloud: "May He always be praised!" whenever they hear the name of the Lord taken in vain anywhere: in media or real life, and/or simply make a Sign of the Cross), a teen sexual encounter (that goes awry), massively dysfunctional family dynamics (except for the fierce motherlove of Joyce, played by an Emmy-deserving Winona Ryder) including one useless and one abandoning father (but there are other good male role models). The grizzly bear of a town sheriff is a dissolute ex-boyfriend of Joyce, but for all his gruffness, he is fearless and will do whatever it takes to help and save his townspeople. Sean Astin plays Joyce's new flame, a braniac and a good all-around chump.

So why am I recommending this? There are amazing portrayals of keeping promises, friendship, sacrifice, and in the end, all kinds of people stepping up the plate to love and do the right thing. The adults work together, the teens work together and the kids work together--and then all ages groups work together together. Families are reunited.

As always, family viewing and discussions with your kids about the media they watch will be in order here.

Season 2 -- A LOT more PROFANITY and more COLORFUL profanity on the lips of everyone (including even more taking of the name of the Lord in vain) by young and old. Lots of SCREAMING at and MANHANDLING of children. Some VERY INTENSE scenes and lots of VIOLENCE. One teen sexual encounter and teen drinking facilitated by an adult set in a happy-go-lucky light. "Stranger Things" went from PG to PG-13 in the second season. Why Oh Why???

Hokey sets and futuristic machines (a la the original "Star Trek") keep up the campy feel. A new red-headed girl is allowed to sort of join the squad. The only reason they like her is because she's like a boy (pinball wizard and likes to skateboard). Although that's typical of the boys' age, it still sends a message to the girls watching that the only way to be validated in this world is to be like a boy/man. No, be BETTER than boys/men at boys/men stuff. Ignore and eschew any typically female stuff. Oh, and probably be good at STEM. "Eleven" ("El") also is very "tomboyish."

One of the boys gets sad "girl advice" from an older teen: basically to never fall in love with girls (just enjoy them) because they'll break your heart. (Oh, and pretend you don't care and aren't interested and they'll come flocking.) Some of this gets corrected and resolved in a good way by the ending.

The "Upside Down" (not to be confused with Australia) is interesting. It's this creepy dark, blue-lit place where large white flakes float in the air in slow-motion. To enlarge the concept: it's almost like Purgatory or somewhere where no one ever really dies, they're just suspended, waiting for rescue--but on the concrete level, it's also just part of the government experiment.

"Eleven" is desperate to find her "Mama" and "Papa." The deep ties of family are all over ST.

One of the boys undergoes a truly harrowing kind of possession by the "Shadow Monster"--a self-replicating mutant that's taking over the town of Hawkins from tunnels below.

"Eleven" discovers her name is really Jane and is enlisted to revenge-kill (with her special powers, summoning up her anger) "the bad men"--the government agents who raised her and experimented on her and others. Revenge is offered as "healing." She goes full-on hoodlum vigilante...with a good, redeeming twist.

Horrible family dynamics of a blended family.

"Stranger Things" could have been a scary thriller, "dark" and "realistic," but still kid friendly--but it's really not. It constantly goes just a little too far every time (definitely in Season 2). Perhaps it's a reflection of the coarsening of society in general.

If a family chooses to watch "Stranger Things" together (I would suggest not allowing kids under 12 to watch), it will require a good Theology of the Body and Media Literacy conversation.

In the end, darkness is dispelled, but an opening is left for ST3.




November 5, 2017

MOVIES: "AMERICAN MADE"




THIS IS AN IRRESPONSIBLE FILM.

Tom Cruise is looking good in "American Made," a zany, hard-to-place-the-tone, slice-of-history flick. Tom is either getting Botox injections or drinking embalming fluid. He looks as young as his twentysomething film wife (Sarah Wright).

"American Made" is the riotous true story of Barry Seal, a former TWA pilot (with a wild streak) recruited by the CIA in the 1980's to fight communism in Central America by: getting mixed up with the Colombian drug cartel and flying drugs, guns and "freedom fighters" back and forth to the USA. There's a lot to be explained and unpacked here--many untold stories within this highly entertaining historical re-enactment. I lived this entire era and was able to follow the exposition, but I'm not sure younger folks will be able to piece it all together.

The film blasts out of the hangar with jerky, frenetic, raucous scenes (many of which are airborne) accompanied by a jubilant, kick-posterior, Vietnam-War-era instrumental rock soundtrack. The anachronistic soundtrack must be done with a purpose: some of the other CIA-recruited pilots in the film were Vietnam War pilots. Pretty much the entire film proceeds in a consistently slap happy manner. The scenes are short, don't say much, don't moralize. But that's also a reflection of our amoral pilot who is raking in literal suitcases full of cash and living high off the hog with nary a twinge of regret.

The always-fine Domhnall Gleeson plays a Machiavellian CIA agent who is Barry's handler, even though he has no worthy dramatic moments or juicy lines to deliver. Cruise gives a superficial, wide-eyed cowboy performance throughout, even when a little more was called for. But let's not forget, this was the fast, prosperous, no holds barred, roaring 80's.

Director Doug Liman ("Bourne Identity," "Edge of Tomorrow") is known for his action movies. The writer, Gary Spinelli, has a few films under this belt as well. But why was this film made? It's not obvious. Any Hollywood film set in the 80's takes its requisite jabs at Reagan (always referencing the goofy movies of his film career), and "American Made" is no exception. Is this an indictment of Republicans now that we have a Republican President again? A vilifying of U.S. foreign policy in general? Are we meant to be swept up in the glamour of a life of "legal crime"? Or is the point that "crime never pays"? Are we meant to linger on the ending: that no one is really above the law...not even if you're above the DEA, FBI and state police? Is it rather that there is honor among thieves? That justice and a reckoning will come from some quarter eventually? Is the point for the U.S. to examine our conscience today? Is this an information/teaching film? Or just an irresistible story that had to be told, a joyride? Is it Barry who is "American Made"?

I was miffed by the glib handling of the great tragedy that was Central America in the latter half of the 20th century. Was the almost jocose nature of the film adopted because Americans will only learn their past if its edutainment? I remember The School of the Americas where the U.S. trained dictators, torturers and assassins. I have friends from Nicaragua who lived horrors. I remember the slaughters. I remember the Catholic El Salvadorian martyrs. The Sandinistas, liberation theology, the Iran-Contra affair, the cocaine-fueled gang wars in our inner cities. For me, it was all a very sad remembrance.

I would be interested to know if younger folks unfamiliar with these times could actually glean a coherent historical narrative from "American Made."

Highly recommended viewing: "Romero" by Paulist Productions, starring the great Raul Julia, for a much more sober account.




And for a more accurate view of the Colombian drug cartel (which initiated what was practically a civil war in Colombia--e.g., 450 police officers were murdered, 1,000 injured, not to mention civilian casualties), watch the riveting documentary "The Two Escobars." If you're a soccer fan, you'll also witness some incredible games (the "other" Escobar was Andres Escobar, the captain of Colombia's national soccer team in the 1980's).