June 28, 2018

MOVIES: "I FEEL PRETTY"




SPOILERS AHEAD.

Amy Schumer's latest comedic offering, "I Feel Pretty," has a simple premise (and no B story): a chubby 20something young adult woman, Renee, trying to fit in to a world of emaciated females, impossible ideals of beauty and vanity sizes...is really struggling. Gyms, mirrors, dating websites, boutique clothing stores all serve to remind her that she doesn't fit in. Literally. However, she's whip smart, runs the website for a cosmetic firm and has great ideas for the company (this will play out in a big way later on).

The film easily holds our attention without being precious or precocious. It references the wishful movie "Big" while at the same time actually imitating it. Renee makes a wish that comes true and...predictably it gets reversed by the end of the film. She becomes what she always wanted to be..."beautiful." Or does she? We don't actually get to see what she sees, and it's better that way.
Renee begins working it with such confidence that everyone goes along for the ride, no matter what she boldly undertakes.

However, she begins to believe her own fake news and live the lie, alienating her friends and turning everyone off with her obnoxiousness.

Amy gets in her contraception and STI jokes, but "I Feel Pretty" is the least crude of her crude films and is rated PG-13. (I wouldn't let my 13 year old see it.) And, as you know, all PG-13 films have to have the pre-requisite pre-marital sex, because if they don't...how will our teens be indoctrinated?! And...maybe our precious "right" to pre-marital sex might be taken away!

The exhibitionist in Amy--as usual--has a hard time keeping her clothes on. Methinks the lady doth disrobe too much. Her boyfriend is very meek and she leads. And initiates sex, of course.

She sees that other people have issues as well. One rich guy questions: do people just love me for my money? In the end, she realizes, "There's no magic, it's just me," and gives a stirring "love yourself just as you are" speech to women, noting that when we're little girls we have tremendous confidence, but then we lose it.

Interestingly, however, she does, finally, also want the affirmation of her boyfriend who "always saw her," and loved her just the way she was, which is refreshing in today's "women don't need men" storytelling climate.

Amy--although a true gutter queen--is also a considerably talented, and makes an art of self-deprecating humor. I seriously wonder how much of "I Feel Pretty" is autobiographical? I hope and pray that maybe someday she can lose the vulgarity to a very large degree.

Want to empower girls/women? Skip "I Feel Pretty" and try Irish step dancing.


OTHER STUFF:

--Lauren Hutton and Michelle Williams also do fine acting jobs.

--The book "Reviving Ophelia," about pre-teen/teen girls losing their confidence is foundational. In this age of social media and the mainstreaming of porn, it could really use an update!

--Renee's speech: "WHEN WE'RE LITTLE GIRLS WE HAVE SUCH CONFIDENCE. WE DOUBT OURSELVES AS WE GROW UP. BUT WHAT IF WE WERE STRONGER THAN THAT? WHAT IF WE DIDN'T CARE WHAT WE LOOK LIKE? WHAT I AM IS BETTER THAN ALL THAT. CUZ I'M ME. THIS NEW LINE OF COSMETICS IS FOR EVERY GIRL WHO IS READY TO BELIEVE IN HERSELF. YOU are BEAUTIFUL! WE ARE ALL THE FACE OF LILY LECLAIR! (THE MAKEUP LINE.)"





June 23, 2018

WHAT TRANSGENDER IDEOLOGY DOES TO CHILDREN


I do not agree with the exact tone with which Dr. Cretella presents everything, but she is saying what no one else will say and has incredibly important information for parents and everyone else. It's important to watch both videos in their entirety.

If your child is struggling with sexual/gender identity or has been indoctrinated by/exposed to transgender ideology in school or through the media, contact www.bestforchildren.org for help.





--What Is Gender Dysphoria in Children?
https://www.acpeds.org/the-college-speaks/position-statements/gender-dysphoria-in-children

--The Harmful Effects of Testosterone on Young Female Bodies
https://4thwavenow.com/2018/06/18/testosterone-young-females-what-is-known-about-lifelong-effects/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

--How Gender Ideology Harms Children: (from the American College of Pediatricians--actual American pediatricians who disagree with the AAP on children's gender issues)

--Is Transgenderism a State-sponsored Religion?
http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2018/01/20547/

--Sex Change: Physically Impossible, Psychosocially Unhelpful, Philosophically Misguided (here's the evidence): http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2018/03/21151/

--Sexuality and Gender: Findings from the Biological, Psychological & Social Sciences
https://www.thenewatlantis.com/publications/executive-summary-sexuality-and-gender

--The Truth About Puberty-Blocking Hormones
https://www.thenewatlantis.com/publications/growing-pains

--Campaign Life Coalition in Canada has a lot of information on gender ideology in the schools: www.campaignlifecoalition.com

--LOTS of TOB resources to teach "sex ed" at home": www.tinyurl.com/TOBsexED  

--Canadian group PAFE (Parents As First Educators) -- activist group: http://pafe-pafe.nationbuilder.com/


--General TOB resources: www.tinyurl.com/TOBresources 

BOOKS:

--"Homosexuality & the Catholic Church: Clear Answers to Difficult Questions" by Fr. John Harvey (founder of www.CourageRC.com 
--"Loving My LGBT Neighbor--Being Friends in Grace & Truth" by Glenn Stanton
--"Understanding Gender Dysphoria" by Mark Yarhouse
--"Living the Truth in Love--Pastoral Approaches to Same-Sex Attraction" by Fr. Paul Check & Dr. Janet Smith
--"The Heart of Female Same-Sex Attraction" by Janelle Hallman
--"Love Thy Body: Answering Hard Questions About Life & Sexuality" by Nancy Pearcey
--"Why I Don't Call Myself Gay: How I Reclaimed My Sexuality and Found Peace" by Dan Mattson
--"When Harry Became Sally: Responding to the Transgender Moment" by Ryan T. Anderson




April 19, 2018

EASTER SEASON DAY OF RENEWAL WITH SR. HELENA--TORONTO





TALK 1 = DOES GOD WANT ME TO BE HAPPY?  
 what happens when we die  / are heaven and hell for real / going to God through our desires / how can I even know what's true









TALK 2 = WHAT IS MY DEEPEST IDENTITY?  
what does it mean to be human (we've forgotten)  / gender / masculine genius & feminine genius / LGBTQ+










TALK 3 = IS TRUE LOVE FOR EVERYONE?   
the 7 stages to true love / God's 5 F's of true love / the 4 purposes of sex / the meaning of sex / humanae vitae & NFP (natural family planning) / satan's plan for your life








TALK 4 = CAN WE WALK THE TALK? 
practical tips for thriving / pro-life issues / parenting the media / sex ed in the home / how can I keep my kids Catholic / where do we go from here











April 11, 2018

BEST MEDIA LITERACY BOOKS


Many titles available from Pauline Book & Media Centers:
(USA & CANADA)

Live in Canada? Most of these DVDs/books (& media) are available from:
Pauline Book & Media Centre
3022 Dufferin St.
Toronto, ON M6B 3T5
416-781-8131     1-800-668-2078
toronto@paulinemedia.com

A MEDIA VISION, STRATEGY & SPIRITUALITY
FROM THE CHURCH'S NEW MEDIA SAINT
BLESSED FATHER JAMES ALBERIONE:

WATCH ONLINE: MediaApostle.com

 
Media Prayers by Fr. Alberione

GENERAL: 

Watch free on EWTN on demand: https://ondemand.ewtn.com/free/Home/Series/ondemand/video/en/digital-catholics
5 30-min. segments on DVD. Reflection questions here: tinyurl.com/DigitalCatholics

Student workbook with teacher/parent pages.


Student workbook with parent/teacher pages.


Cover does not do justice to this amazing program that catechizes students through art!
Teaches them art literacy and religious art literacy!
https://www.smp.org/product/1327/Teaching-Guide-for-Beyond-the-Written-Word/


The author of "Beyond the Written Word" also created an app that can be used in any art museum in order to learn theology through art: art/y/fact.Xn (Android only at present)











Best book for parishes. 2016























BASICS:



It doesn't look like much, but this is THE collection of official Church (Vatican) documents
on the media  from 1936-1996. Be sure to get the 2nd Edition.
[LOGOS Divine Word Press, Manila 1997].
An additional slim volume, "C&SCBD Supplement I" covers 1998-2002.

PORNOGRAPHY:

There are several versions of this book for kids of various ages.
They are meant to be read together with parents.
Tells kids what to do when they encounter porn, and why porn is bad.







This is the ultimate porn debunker. Could have been entitled: "The Porn Lie."
Not a religious book, filled with science & stats.
Shoots down all the excuses.

DETOX from porn (CD & mp3)

Excellent DVD on porn from different perspectives:
former addict, former porn actor, researcher, etc.
(Mark Houck & Dr. Judith Reisman)


OTHER:

Best book for parents. Catholic Dad is a psychologist.
Works with families struggling with media.
He is neither optimistic nor pessimistic, but believes we can live well
 in this media world if we have a plan.

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CLASSICS:



Jaron Lanier is the "father of Virtual Reality."


Marshall McLuhan's little known book on Media and Religion


 


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Turkle is a professor at MIT